What if I told you that the most powerful way to read the Passover Haggadah… is to write your own?
In this episode of Madlik, we explore a radical idea born on Israel’s early kibbutzim in the 1920s and 30s: that Judaism isn’t just inherited—it’s authored.
We’re joined by Eran Yarkoni and Anton Marks of the Shittim Institute, who are traveling the U.S. with their exhibition Haggadah of Hope.
These are not historical documents. They are living texts—rewritten each year to reflect loss, displacement, resilience, and hope.
From Seders held in evacuation hotels… to blessings rewritten for a return home… to the powerful realization that “now we are the story”…
This episode explores what happens when ritual becomes a vehicle for real-time meaning-making, and how the Seder continues to serve as a framework for confronting both memory and the present moment.
We ask:
👉 What if “Bechol Dor Vador” doesn’t mean remembering the Exodus—but rewriting it?
👉 What happens when ancient ritual meets modern trauma?
👉 And what can we learn from a Judaism bold enough to evolve in real time?
Key Takeaways
- 1. The Haggadah Isn’t a Book—It’s a Framework
The kibbutzim didn’t treat the Haggadah as sacred text to preserve, but as a structure to fill. They understood something we often forget: the power of the Seder comes not from repeating the words—but from making them speak to your moment.”
2. “Bechol Dor Vador” Is a Command to Create
We’ve been taught to relive the Exodus. The kibbutzim took it one step further: we are obligated to rewrite it.
Every generation doesn’t just inherit the story—it adds a chapter.”
3. Ritual Isn’t Escapism—It’s How We Process Reality
From pioneers in the 1930s to displaced families after October 7, the Seder became a place to confront the present, not escape it.
By writing their pain, loss, and hope into the Haggadah, these communities show that ritual, at its best, is not about the past—it’s about making meaning in real time.”
Timestamps
[00:00] Kibbutz Haggadah Reimagined
[01:24] Meet the Shitim Institute
[04:07] Haggadah of Hope Tour
[07:09] Inside the Kibbutz Archive
[10:44] Haggadah as a Living Story
[13:23] After October 7 Texts
[15:01] Sponsor Break
[16:08] Return Home in the Fourth Cup
[23:26] Ma Nishtana Then and Now
[28:23] US Reactions and Roadshow
[30:16] Wrap Up and Passover Wishes
Links & Learnings
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Geoffrey Stern [00:00:05]:
Most people think the Haggadah is a book you read. The kibbutzim thought it was a book you write. For over a century, Israel’s kibbutzim have been quietly running one of the boldest experiments in Jewish life, treating the Haggadah not as a fixed text, but as a framework, rewritten each year to reflect the present. In this episode, we sit down with the team from the Shittim Institute, custodians of an extraordinary archive of kibbutz-related rituals, texts, and traditions. Through their traveling exhibit, Haggadah of Hope, we encounter voices from the Gaza border communities, some written decades ago, others in the immediate aftermath of October 7th. The result is a profound reframing of Passover, not as a story about what happened, but as a story we are living, a story of resilience. This week more than ever, please take a look at the accompanying Sefaria source sheet, which contains images of the traveling show along with audio recordings I made and with the texts that are cited and many that are not.
Welcome to Madlik. My name is Jeffrey Stern, and at Madlik, we light a spark or shed some light on a Jewish text or tradition. Along with Rabbi Adam Mintz, we host Madlik Disruptive Torah on your favorite podcast platform and now on YouTube and Substack. We also publish a source sheet on Sefaria, and a link is always included in the show notes. This week is just a week before Passover, and we have the distinct pleasure of visiting with our friends at the Shittim Institute. In past pre-Passover episodes, they have shared with us Haggadot from the kibbutzim, and we have explored something we call Yahadut Yisraelit, which is the organically grown secular but culturally rich Judaism created by pioneers on Israel’s kibbutzim starting in the ’20s and the ’30s. Today we are catching up with Eran Yaarkoni, the CEO of Shittim Institute, and Anton Marx, of all places, Congregation Adat Israel in Philadelphia. They are visiting the US with a traveling exhibit called Haggadot of Help. The exhibit emerges from the cultural and spiritual world of the Gaza border kibbutzim deeply affected by October 7th. For decades, these communities have created and read their own Haggadot, texts that reflect their values, struggles, and hopes. Today, these Haggadot stand as a living legacy, carrying voices of creativity, responsibility, and moral courage in the face of profound loss. Bringing them to the U.S. is an act of connection, linking Israeli and North American communities Through shared memory, ritual, and story. At its heart, this is an invitation to reflect together on what it means to be Jewish right now, which stories we choose to tell, and how we carry them forward across oceans, across differences, and toward a shared visit. This is our first live visit to an exhibit, and although we will try our best to describe everything we see, we encourage you, our listeners, to watch this on YouTube YouTube and Spotify. So, Eran and Anton, it is an absolute pleasure for me to, uh, to be here with you today. I visited in Israel, and now you are in Philadelphia, the city of, uh, liberty for America, and you are bringing us the, uh, the hope of the Haggadot. Welcome to America.
Eran Yarkoni [00:04:03]:
Thank you, thank you. Thanks for having us.
Anton Marks [00:04:05]:
Thank you very much.
Geoffrey Stern [00:04:07]:
So tell us, tell us, I just walked into the show and I’m seeing my old friends. Tell me about the exhibit.
Anton Marks [00:04:15]:
So we’ve got this incredible exhibit, as you say, “Haggadot of Hope: Stories of Freedom from the Gaza Border Kibbutzim,” which includes excerpts. We’ve got here a map of the kibbutzim on the Gaza border. We’ve got 17 kibbutzim here whose haggadot are represented in this exhibition. We’re traveling around the East Coast of North America, from New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and then up to Massachusetts. 14 locations in 13 days. And we’re happy to be here to share this amazing treasure trove of excerpts of Haggadot from these kibbutzim. The kibbutzim, most of these kibbutzim were established in the 1940s, 1950s, and up until today, they have been rewriting and revisiting their Haggadot, incredible pieces of art and creativity and messages of unbelievable messages of hope and optimism, which is, you know, even we’ve got Haggadot here represented from 2024, 2025 communities that have experienced incredible amounts of trauma, incredible amounts of loss, and yet their Haggadot, when you flick through the pages, of expressing their hopes and their dreams for a better future, for peace. So yeah, the exhibition is here in North America. We’ve already done a couple of events. We’re now in our third community. The response so far has been fantastic, and we’d like to share some of the excerpts with your listeners.
Geoffrey Stern [00:05:57]:
Fantastic. You know, we are commanded in the Haggadah to act as though we are going out of Egypt, and it It seems to me that every time, every generation that celebrates the Seder, we’re actually living in different periods. Sometimes it’s a golden age. I think most American Jews and maybe some Israelis are used to the Seder being a celebration. We live in good times. We have so much to be thankful for. Our predecessors might have suffered. You can say sometimes we forget that for many of our forefathers, whether in the ’20s and ’30s and ’40s in Israel or in 2,000 years of Jewish history, Passover was a tough time. It was a Leil Shemurim. And I think to have us look at Haggadot from that time period, people that we can really associate with, I mean, the ’20s and ’30s and ’40s weren’t that long ago. We can still see kibbutzim in Israel. The message has to be so powerful. I was wondering before we begin, if you could just tell our listeners a little bit about Shittim and how it is that you, your institute, has access to these Haggadot. Tell us about the amazing trove, the amazing archive of Haggadot, but also in general, the daily rituals and communal cultural events and texts of the Kibbutz movement.
Anton Marks [00:07:41]:
So I can tell you that Shittim Institute was established by Aryeh Ben-Gurion, the nephew of the famous David Ben-Gurion, and he was an educator on Kibbutz Bet HaShita up in the north of Israel between Afula and Beit Shan, Kibbutz Bet HaShita. And he was looking for materials that he could use within his educational work with the kids of the kibbutz, and he started collecting materials that had been put together on his kibbutz for different holidays and festivals, whether it was programs for Bar/Bat Mitzvah, whether it was for Pesach, whether it was for Yom Hatzma’ot or other festivals. And at a certain point he was like, okay, I’ve collected these materials for my kibbutz, but surely there are other kibbutzim that need, that are creating materials and that there are other educators on other kibbutzim that would like materials similarly to me to work with the kids. And so he started wandering around the neighboring kibbutzim and he started collecting these materials. And first of all, he put them in a milk crate underneath his bed. And eventually that milk crate wasn’t big enough. And he was given a room on the kibbutz and he filled the room with materials from the kibbutzim. And eventually today, what we have all these years later is the archive. It’s a nationally officially recognized archive with over 1 million pieces from all of the kibbutzim, around about 250 kibbutzim from all over the country. And it’s cataloged. According to theme, according to festival, according to holiday, according to life cycle event. All of these materials, they say that if you put them end to end, it will reach a third of a mile in distance, most of which is available, accessible digitally on our website, which exists today in English, Hebrew, and Spanish. And around the archive, it’s an educational center where we run programs for school principals, for teachers, and programs all over the country in Israel, bringing these materials to life because they are educational materials. And we’re putting together lots of programs. On top of that, we’re today mentoring, working together with the cultural coordinators of kibbutzim on the Gaza border, now also communities in the north that have been evacuated. And that’s all part of our work to make these materials accessible and to delve into the content here because it’s absolutely incredible stuff. And Israeli society is looking for inspiration and materials for which to use during our holiday celebrations. And now for the first time, we’ve crossed the pond and we’re here in North America in order to bring these materials to a new audience that we feel can benefit from seeing this 100-year creativity of kibbutz Judaism.
Geoffrey Stern [00:10:28]:
You whetted our interest, so please show us around the show or take us to a sample of what the Haggadah that the kibbutz created is unique and how it has a unique message for us.
Eran Yarkoni [00:10:44]:
So as for example, so let’s start with the main idea or the main unique approach that the kibbutzim developed for the Haggadah. They looked after how to tell the story, not as a historical story that finished 3,000 years ago, but as a continuous story that we are still a part of it. Because they wanted that the story of the Exodus will be the inspiration for their own journey. And so, and this is, the main entrance, let’s say, to understand the secrets of the Haggadah of the kibbutzim. So we can see like here in the Kibbutz Givim, when they talked about Behol Dor Vador, so they draw a painting of a woman that came out from Egypt. And it’s like a chain of people and continuity till their days in the 1950s when the last chain is the pioneer who arrived to establish kibbutz Gvaram in the Gaza border. So this is an interesting example. Another one.
Geoffrey Stern [00:12:13]:
So, Eran, let me stop you for a second because for those of us who cannot see the video, it kind of reminds me of sometimes you see when people describe evolution where they have a primitive, whether it’s a monkey or whatever, and then slowly it evolves through Neanderthal man and then through the caveman up until present-day man. And that drawing kind of captures that. And what that means is evolution is not simply a way of understanding what you’re looking at, but the word actually works. That for the person who drew that image, Judaism had evolved. And when you evolve, where you are today is critical, but you can never forget your past. Your past gives more meaning to where you are today. And so in every generation, the Bechol Dor Vador reminds us of L’dor Vador. It’s both a mesorah, a tradition, but it’s also an evolution. Things change. I I love it.
Anton Marks [00:13:23]:
So just to continue what you said, I will show you another example, a fabulous or very, very exciting example. Just I want that you will be able to see it from before we talked about Gvar Am from 1950. And now I want to show you the same approach that you talk about it from 2024, 2 years ago, half a year after October 7 massacre, in kibbutz Neer Oz, one of the kibbutzim that had the worst hurt in this massacre, they sat around their Haggadah that they wrote a few days before the seder, and they wrote for themselves like this. As we face the challenge of creating memory, how will Neer Oz and its people be remembered in the eyes of history? This book is being written now. The task is ours. So they took the mission to be the history, not just to learn about the history. And as they say to themselves on these days, Half a year after October 7th, now we are the history. People will learn about us and we will need to know it now to remember it and to be like symbol, like a lighthouse for others.
Geoffrey Stern [00:15:01]:
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Eran Yarkoni [00:17:14]:
Yes, if I understood what you said, that I will say like this, that the right way to use the Haggadah is like a framework, like a vessel that you can fill it with your story and your values that you want to resonate and the things that you want to reinforce. And this is the, I think this is the right way to celebrate the Passover is that you need to think, what do you have to bring to the world? What is your own story? And what is your unique part in the long chain of the Jewish peoplehood.
Geoffrey Stern [00:18:05]:
Yes, I think we’re all touching upon the same subject. Let me ask you this. The picture that you have of the Niroz Seder, or the Seder that they wrote that, where did they hold it? Were they in Niroz or they were still?
Eran Yarkoni [00:18:23]:
No, on this time they were evacuated to Eilat. It was a set in a Malone, in a hotel. And I think only 3 or 4 months ago, we’re talking about 2 years later, they started to go back to their homes.
Geoffrey Stern [00:18:48]:
I’m wondering if the fact that they were in Galut when they had that Seder, impacted their Seder?
Geoffrey Stern [00:18:57]:
We in the real Galut are used to sitting here and saying, “B’Shana haba b’Yerushalayim.” But I wonder if it entered into their Seder, “B’Shana haba b’Nir Oz.” So I will ask Anton now to take you to another board with a blessing of Kibbutz Nirim next to Nir Oz in the same region council that were They were evacuated to Beersheva, and let’s see their Haggadah.
Geoffrey Stern [00:19:29]:
Fantastic.
Anton Marks [00:19:30]:
Okay, so as Eran said, Kibbutz Nirim 2024, again, only half a year after the 7th of October massacres, to our return to Nirim, to the kibbutz, to the community, to our land, and to the home we have always loved. So here they are. Within their Haggadah. The end of the Haggadah is about hope. It’s about looking to the future. It’s about looking forward and being optimistic. And here is what Kibbutz Nirim are asking for next year, that they will return to their kibbutz after being evacuated, return to their home.
Geoffrey Stern [00:20:05]:
Now, was that integrated into Koso Ravi’i, into the actual prayer?
Anton Marks [00:20:10]:
Exactly, exactly. That is their fourth cup. In their Haggadah from 2024. That is part of their fourth cup’s blessing.
Geoffrey Stern [00:20:19]:
Could you read that in Hebrew, please?
Anton Marks [00:20:21]:
I could try. It’s beautiful. It’s beautiful.
Geoffrey Stern [00:20:32]:
And, you know, had they made that blessing without that, it wouldn’t have been authentic. The beauty of these kibbutzim Haggadah is you could argue that they are diverging from the traditional Haggadah, but on the other hand, they are taking the Haggadah more seriously because it is impacting their life. And I think part of what you’re doing in this tour is uniting our communities in the United States with those in Israel. And it’s at a moment like this when in fact all of us, or at least the kibbutznikim, were in galut, that we have now a special connection that we never had they had before. And what they read and wrote into their blessing now gives us more meaning to us and potentially helps them have an insight in what it is, 2,000 years of Jewish yearning and the way we live, hoping to come to Israel. It’s an amazing— by reliving and rewriting the Haggadah, they actually bring it to life and bring our communities together. It’s so wonderful. I was actually at Nerim 6 months after October 7th. And I think what a lot of people don’t realize is many of the kibbutzim were celebrating the night before their anniversary of their founding. I don’t know whether it was 70 years or 80 years. They were actually doing a seder, if you will. And the next morning, this all happened. Just amazing history.
Anton Marks [00:22:11]:
I think you’re right in terms of what we can learn and what we can take from this. I think the beauty of the Kibbutz Haggadah is that it’s not a historical document. It’s not a historical document that’s set in stone, that ends with the Exodus from Egypt, and that’s it. We’re just sitting and we’re having a history lesson about what happened. For them, Exodus didn’t end with the Yitziat Mitzrayim. It’s continual. It’s a continual process of what is our Mitzrayim now, What was it when we wrote our Haggadah 5 years ago, when we wrote it 20 years ago, when we wrote it 40 years ago? It’s something that’s real. It’s something that tells the current situation, the current story, and the current dilemmas that we have. It’s set in the present as well as in the past, and it’s also looking forward. That whole process of rewriting and renewing, we ask on Passover, Manishtanat, What has changed this year? And if we ask those questions, we’re asking about what our current reality looks like. And therefore, we can always respond and say, how do we respond and how do we understand our current reality to give us an idea and understanding of what we should be doing?
Geoffrey Stern [00:23:26]:
So I’m glad you mentioned the Ma Nishta now, because in the kibbutzim haggadot, that’s the first thing I go to. I’m a collector of kibbutzim haggadot, and the first thing I go to is to look at how they changed, how they modified, how they personalized the Ma Nishtana. Do you have a place in the exhibit that you focus on the Ma Nishtana?
Anton Marks [00:23:48]:
So yeah, Ma Nishtana is an opportunity to look at the current reality and see how it has changed from the previous year. And so here we’ve got an example, actually an old example from 1958 at Bor Chayil that I think is interesting. Before we get on to answering your question about after October 7th. And here, Bor Chayil said, on all other nights, we worry about the youth in the diaspora and their struggles. On this night, we trust in their strength and in their role in building the state and our kibbutz home. So what you see here is the connection between Israel and the diaspora, that Israel needs the diaspora and the diaspora needs Israel. And this is what Bor Chayil are putting inside their Haggadah from 1958. I thought that was nice. A nice excerpt to share with you.
Geoffrey Stern [00:24:35]:
Do you have that in Hebrew that you could read to us? Is that on the side there?
Anton Marks [00:24:39]:
So in Hebrew, we’ve got— Beautiful, beautiful. And so that was written in the ’30s or ’40s? ’50s, ’58. In the ’50s. ’58 by Kibbutz So they’re looking at the diaspora, they’re looking at their responsibility towards the diaspora, and they’re understanding that the diaspora also has a responsibility to the state.
Geoffrey Stern [00:25:14]:
It’s amazing to me that the diaspora made it into their Haggadah, that we were, that in itself is such a revelation that they were do’agim, they were worried about the youth of the diaspora. That in itself connects our two communities. Go on.
Anton Marks [00:25:33]:
Of course, of course. And then we’ve got, we move across here to Kibbutz Erez from 2024, and they’ve put in their Haggadah on all of the Seders. Again, what has changed this year? On all of the Seders, we sit among neighbors and on green lawns. On this night, we are displaced. Kibbutz Erez, displaced from their kibbutz, and they couldn’t be in their home in Erez, so they put into their Haggadah their longing to go home.
Geoffrey Stern [00:26:02]:
Amazing.
Eran Yarkoni [00:26:03]:
Yeah.
Geoffrey Stern [00:26:04]:
You know, I think most people think that asking questions at the seder, even including someone who’s contrary like the Rasha, or sharing with each other our troubles, our burdens, our questions, would detract from the power of the seder. But I think what these Ma Nishtanot show is that that actually by identifying the challenges of the moment, you put the challenges of the moment into the context of something that’s 2,000, 3,000 years old, something which in the context of everybody seated around the Seder. And so it gives you strength because at the end of the day, what your show is about, besides connecting the disparate communities of Jews and lovers of Israel around the world, it’s also, how does the Seder give us strength? How does it give us hope for the future? And I think it’s not by shying away from the challenges. If anything, what your various excerpts this afternoon have shown is by including them, by writing them into the Haggadah. Of the therapy and part of the exercise in terms of uniting us but also giving us strength.
Anton Marks [00:27:36]:
Most certainly, most certainly. It makes it immediate, it makes it real, it makes it about what we’re dealing with right now. And part of the idea of coming now, specifically now, to the US and to meet communities is about trying to grapple with the current challenges that we’re facing And we have many, many shared challenges and shared obstacles that we need to deal with. And to do it together will make us all stronger. So yeah, we’ve come across, traveled through several countries to make it here in a time of war in order to meet people and have that conversation about the now and about the things that we’re dealing with, but also about looking forward to the future and hopefully strengthening each other and giving each other the support that we need in these times.
Geoffrey Stern [00:28:23]:
Wonderful. So before I put up the schedule of the show as it goes around the East Coast, what has been the response so far? How many days have you been here? Where have you been so far? And what has been the response? Maybe give us some anecdotes that impressed you or that made an impact on you.
Anton Marks [00:28:43]:
Yeah, I mean, this is the third day we’ve been here. We’re in Philadelphia. We’ve been in two communities yesterday and the day before. Today is the third. After today, we head towards New York. What can I say? We’ve had tears. We’ve had people where this experience, this exhibition, has been a very touching and very emotional. Passover has a place in, I think, every Jew’s heart. It’s a time for family and a time to think back. Again, that question we keep returning to of what’s different this year from last year. People have been recalling missing family members. Both in Israel, in the war, but also those that have passed away in the last 12 months. And people have really, really responded well and connected. It’s very different on a lot of levels, the kibbutz celebration of the seder to what communities, how communities celebrate here. On the other hand, yeah, there’s similar questions about the guests and about how we set up the tables, but also the deeper questions of where we are today and what does it mean to be free and what’s challenging us to be free right now. What are the things that we need to, what are the chains that we need to break out from? And I think the kibbutz Haggadah, the kibbutz way of asking these deep and meaningful and difficult questions is meeting people where they are right now in America. And I’m looking forward to meeting more people and having more responses and more conversations. Because it definitely sparks conversation. And for me, that’s what it’s about.
Geoffrey Stern [00:30:15]:
It’s so wonderful. So I have the schedule up. We will typically publish next week, but you will be in New Jersey up until the 26th. You’re going to be at Golda Och Academy and then in Massachusetts at the end of the month. And hopefully this can become something that’s ongoing because I reach out to you guys every Chag. I think your email address and maybe the URL of the Shittim Institute is Chagim. It’s holidays. Whenever there is a holiday, and we’ve done an episode on Shavuot last year, it’s just amazing how the kibbutzim members, some of them came from traditional backgrounds and were very learned, but how they adopted our traditions and made it relevant and made it their own. And I think as we all try to cope with the challenges that we’re facing and that we will face for many years to come. I think that what the Shittim Institute has is going to be an amazing resource for us to cope and to be inspired to create our own responses in our own ways. So I love what you’ve done. and I encourage all of our listeners to visit Shittim when you go to Israel and to make it your business to learn more about the kibbutz haggadot, the kibbutz Yahadut Yisraelit, unique blend of Judaism. And I want to thank you, Anton and Eran, for taking the time. I know you have to pack up and go to New York to spend some time with us, and I might even see you tomorrow. In New York. But thank you so much and take this opportunity to wish you a Chag Sameach, a spring full of growth and hope for all of us. Thank you so much.
Eran Yarkoni [00:32:26]:
Thank you, Geoffrey. To you and your listeners too, Chag Pesach Sameach.



